For centuries, philosophers and mystics have talked about why we need 3 different lovers throughout life.
Namely, each of these people who’re our romantic partners teaches us a different lesson.
But, check this out-there’s no guarantee that all of us will make it to number three. If you’re wondering whether you’ve had all of these partners or not, check out who they are below!
We Fall in Love in these 3 People in Our Lifetime
The first person or our first love is when we’re still young or the love we tend to idealize.
For many, it’s like right from a fairytale. This person felt he/she is the one and as a couple you were the life of the party-everyone saw you as the perfect couple.
But, with this love, it’s mostly pure because of how others see you; it’s not really how you feel.
The second person is the love we experience when things get real.
This is the hard love during which we experience our sexuality, our deepest desires, and start to explore ourselves-who am I? What do I want from life?
At times, you begin to believe that you’re both destined to be together until the end of life. But, at other times, you feel like you hate this person!
This love may feel passionate, but wrong. You break up, get back together, and then break up again.
Often times, you start to realize that this isn’t meant to be…
However, you do learn something crucial from this relationship-who you really are and what you expect from life.
What about the third love?
This love comes from nowhere-you meet this person whom you never thought you would like in the first place.
This relationship will take off like a stroke-no one is prepared for it! Even at the beginning of the relationship, it will feel like you fit with each other.
You give compliments to each other about your strengths and don’t avoid the weaknesses. You feel like you can take over the world with this person.
It feels right because it is. You’ve probably been through a lot, but now, you know that this person is special and that you can beat every obstacle together.
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